Post by LumpyPost by PyrateJohnYou also live in some sort of fantasy land where your only friends
are the imaginary playmates that you make up in Usenet. Lumpy and
Gaspar and the various other nyms don't exist Karen, and everyone
knows that.
As far as the finances and relative social levels of the women that I
have dated Karen, you don't have a clue. You live in a very modest
small apartment in a town of little consequence. The gals that you
run down are all much more successful in their careers, and are
frankly at a much higher level socially than you ever were at or will
ever be. I hate to call you trailer trash, but the reality is that
you don't have a clue about 99% of the financial and social things
that you post and it shows through to anyone who reads this
nonsense. >>
Number 1., I have no idea who Gaspar is, but I can attest to my
tenuous attachment to physical reality.
Of course, you know that he and I are not each other nor are we YOU.
If Gilmer would just try a civil email to each of us, he'd have some
basic answers. He doesn't like TRUTH and REALITY, however....he prefers
these "cheap thrills" and feeding his obsession with ... Karen. So, I
continue to be his victim, whether or not I participate. I tried for
years NOT to (as he's no longer rational and it was a waste of my time);
however, that didn't work and he just ramped up the abuse, knowing
sooner or later he'd get me to reply. Considering how that has gone for
him, any normal person would have realized they'd made a BAD choice and
slink away. Not that stupid numbnutz...he's a masochist and loves being
kicked around it seems.
Post by LumpyNumber 2., I suddenly realized I've developed a kind of peculiar
loyalty to Karen,
You are a man who can appreciate the TRUTH. And I feel a loyalty to you
because of that. Those who take John's side become revolting to
me....they aren't much better than he is and incredibly STUPID and/or
naive.
based on her whole-hearted adoption of my home
I CHOSE to move here and if I didn't like it, I'd move elsewhere. I am
proud of myself for choosing the place I did when I had the entire US to
choose from. It was kinda overwhelming to have that kind of
freedom.....I could have moved absolutely anywhere (that I could
afford)....any state. I first was intending on Oregon....Portland area
or closer to the Coast or maybe as far south as Cottage Grove where I
had relatives. But I decided Puget Sound area of Washington would be
even better for me and specifically Kitsap County. Seattle is a BIG
city and in many ways, all big cities are alike as far as things I no
longer want in my daily life. I wanted to be near one, but far enough
way so I was "out in the country". I am close enough to both Seattle
and Tacoma for anything I might want to do/buy in a big city, but I
basically live in a small city and it has a "country/rural" atmosphere.
On Sylvan Road where I am there aren't any streetlights, curbs or
sidewalks....just road ditches...and lotsa blackberries ;)
Funny how that kind of thing scratches the tribal instinct....
Post by Lumpyyou come from a part of the country that's fetid and decrepit and
without relief,
Jacksonville is about the least attractive place in FL to be. I've been
all over except the panhandle and I probably would like that better than
the rest if I ever get down to see it. Jose has spent the majority of
his life in FL and he prefers the central location where he is. He
lives in a rural setting but isn't far from big cities, either. If I
ever had reason to move to FL (totally remote possibility) I seem to
prefer the Gulf Coast. I can't think of ONE good thing about living in
Jacksonville.
with a crushing socio-economic malaise that has
Post by Lumpycrippled almost everyone in it.
The real estate biz has certainly taken a dive....yet Ms. Lovely has
this great *career* that I never had. It's a joke.
People from the Seattle neighborhoods
Post by Lumpyconsider your whole generic region as being one door away from Hell
itself.
Seattle and Jacksonville are as far apart in class and quality of life
as they are in their opposite corners of the United States. Few people
living around here have any desire to ever live anywhere else...and I
can see why. I don't even care to travel much now. No place has the
clean air, for starters. Not many places have as much water all around
them as I do, either. Few places are as easy to garden in as
here....growing plants love the weather and very long growing season...
plus, the ground doesn't freeze in winter, nor do they burn up in
summer. Spring and Fall are long seasons.
Our quality of life and educational status and economy has
Post by Lumpyprovided generations of affluent citizens, notwithstanding the high
tech infrastructure.
Not long ago I read that Seattle is the BEST place in the US to raise
children. Kids that grow up here are lucky....so much to see and
do...so many opportunities for a GOOD life.
Gilmer is attracted to TRASHY and TACKY. He would be miserable around
here and wouldn't fit in with most people. He's right at home where he
is. He couldn't survive in Danville, KY where he was born and grew up,
either. Far too civilized and dignified for him. He has no standards
and needs to associate with others in places where they don't have any,
either.
Our history of unions, finance, insurance, and
Post by Lumpyhighly paid light industry has given us a healthy tax base and
excellent quality of life.
Bill Gates certainly could have set up shop anywhere. He chose to stay
here.
Post by LumpyNumber 3., that lady friend of yours is a hundred miles of bad road
And he's added a few more hundred to her in the past 4 years. If he
doesn't find somebody else soon and drop her, she will be too far gone
to survive by the time he's done with her. I saw her (at a distance)
and have seen pictures close up of her when they first got together.
Few woman change for the worse in 4 years time like she has....all
thanks to John Gilmer. I think he does that to pretty much all the
women who spend some years with him. My aging process has accellerated
since dealing with the idiot. He is what is known as an "Emotional
Vampire".
Post by Lumpyand you have proven to the world that you're deliberately living on
her finite resources,
He thinks that's a joke. Proudly calls her "BossWoman" and "She Who
Must Be Obeyed". He seeks out women who will "take care of him".
because men do not seek out a female like that
Post by Lumpyfor sexual enjoyment.
That's something he only provides as a "service" to them when they
demand it....looks at it as "paying his rent". Doesn't bother him at
all to go for a year without sex with his wife until she decided she
wanted some. He may not be totally gay, but at the very least he's
bi-sexual. And he's either had a vasectomy or is just sterile. Nobody
can be as lucky as he has been or as careful about protection when he
claims to have bedded *countless* different women and NEVER once did he
get caught? He was drunk much of the time and nobody was being
responsible enough to be "careful". He knows he's safe...
Post by LumpyFor all Karen's peculiarities,
Now, now......I pride myself in not being just like every other woman.
Why should I be? I've always had the talent, skills, brains, and
freedom to do what I want to....not what I got myself into because I
didn't have another choice. If I were a male, I would NEVER be thought
of as "peculiar". I walk to the sound of my own drummer and depend on
no one to "help" or "take care of me". When that time comes, I will
hire someone.
she's made her
Post by Lumpyway in the world, which is a damned site more than you have ever done,
my fine fat friend.
John and I both started out with good and decent parents....but his had
far more money and education (in his father's case). But I followed the
right paths in my life and John took the back roads in his. I worked
for my money and recognition; he decided to STEAL from others and create
a fake persona that he believes is some kind of celebrity. I got more
attention than I wanted and he can't get enough....even when it's
negative. I thoroughly enjoy living alone and taking care of myself,
entertaining myself with my various interests and hobbies; he can't
stand to be alone, can't fend for himself, has no productive or
rewarding hobbies, and has to depend on liquor to alter his mood so he
thinks he's enjoying life.
He would be so uncomfortable if he met or got to know "Jose"....who has
more interests and skills than most anybody I know. He never has time
to be bored as he has dozens of productive and interesting things to
turn to...and is always seeking new things to learn and master. John
becomes monotonous to others before long as he is very limited in his
activities and abilities. You can see from his posting and writing that
he's extremely repetitious. He thinks I want(ed) to "move in with
him"....God, I'd have run off after the first week due to him boring me
to death.
Everything he does with women is always what HE wants to do, where HE
wants to go. If Deborah had any kind of life or interests before she
met him, she's dropped them all now to follow him around as he chases
dreams he told me about 2-3 years before he ever heard of her. If she
ever does anything she wants to now, he doesn't go with her. He won't
do ONE thing that isn't on HIS agenda. Everything is always about HIM,
all the time. She not only pays for his dreams, she goes along with him
and takes care of him, too. I'm sure he spins his ideas so she thinks
they are her dreams, too. Poor thing that she is. The latest of his
"victims" ... his latest "meal ticket"..
